My husband says I talk a lot. I say a lot of things. All the time. Can anyone relate? Chances are, you’ve probably also said some words to your husband that you wish you hadn’t. Words that slipped out. Words that might’ve even hurt him. So how can we use our words wisely when talking to our spouse?

In the Bible we are told “When you talk, don’t say anything bad. But say the good things that people need – whatever will help them grow stronger. Then what you say will be a blessing to those who hear you” (Ephesians 4:29, ERV). In the Contemporary English Version, the last part of that verse reads: “help others by what you say.” In the Message version, it reads: “Say only what helps, each word a gift.”

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If someone were to ask you what you considered to be qualities of a healthy marriage, more than likely ‘friendship’ would be on that list. Depending upon your season of life it may be higher or lower on your priority list. 

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I’ve been married for 12 and a half years. Having a husband is the most incredible feeling, the most frustrating “job” and the safest space in the world. Not everyone experiences it that way, and that’s OK. We started dating when I was 18 years old, dated for 4 years before we tied the knot. So in a mere 2 years time, I would have been with my husband longer that I’ve been without him. How incredible is that?

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When I think romantic getaway, my imagination automatically goes to winter. Fireplace. Cuddles. Wine. Bubble bath. Candles. Any excuse, nay reason, to get closer together and stare into each other’s eyes. This was exactly what our romantic time at In Abundance Guesthouse was!

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When I got married almost 12 years ago, I weighed 58kgs. Today the scale shows my weight at a good 20kgs more. Read more

When I started dating my (now) husband just over 15 years ago, I was a Grade 12 student with a part-time job as a waitress, and he was an assistant teacher. (More on this interesting love story in this blog!) So as you can guess, our dates weren’t extravagant. We got seriously creative with our …budget dates without it ever feeling cheap. After a decade (++), I am still dating my husband and here are our top tips and ideas!

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