Parenting is a journey you're never really prepared for. No matter how much you prepare to be said parent. Even now, after being married more than a decade and four kids later, I still wonder what the hell I'm doing, almost on a daily basis. Because the thing about parenting rules is, there aren't any!

Just during this last week, I've spoken to two moms expecting their fourth baby. And felt judged. Or overwhelmed. Just like I was. For being pregnant. And I felt the need to write this letter.

I'll admit it; I'm a bit of a wet wipe snob. I need the perfect wipe. Every time. Not all wet wipes are equal. I don't like it being too soapy, too wet, too rough. It must not come out in lumps, or tear when I pull one out. But I don't…